Women's Issues and Bipolar

Women’s issues, when it comes to bipolar disorder, are many; all focused on a sense of identity and autonomy. In the culture as a whole, females have a particular array of unique problems arising from the way society views them.

When lost in mania or depression, there is a difficulty connecting emotionally with others. While it is true for most females, seeking identity in relationships has special meaning for those caught in the polarization that comes from bipolar disorder. Sliding back and forth in mood is unique to this illness. Cycling makes it hard to deal with the shuffling between nurturing and maintaining one’s identity. This can impact a sense of self-control, leading some women to promiscuity in a vain attempt to be cared for and valued by their partner. Only a female can know the shame and sense of degradation that stems from trying to find worth in relationships.

Being supported versus financial independence can keep many women with mental illness bouncing back and forth in a never-ending loop of seeking their own sense of self-esteem and catering to a partner who has a narrow vision of their worth. Often this leads to identity confusion that can be magnified by manic distortion.

Flagrant bipolar disorder can handicap a woman when parenting her children. Dancing to mania’s allure can cause many to ignore their parenting responsibilities, only to be left bereft of dignity when they recover from a manic escapade.
Repercussions stemming from a mental illness make the struggle for recovery a special dilemma for women. Added to their already overburdened loss of personal power only adds to the stigma they experience.

All of this together lends to an urgency to heal. Yet, qualities unique to women can aid in a return to health, while the draw to connect with others can lead to emotional support. Women have the potential to be gatekeepers to recovery for themselves and their families When stable, their ability to nurture can save lives threatened by emotional instability. Whether it be their children, their partners, or the community at large, they have a unique corner on healing. It’s through their ability and strength that we all prosper emotionally. Women are caretakers by nature, but they need to learn to take care of themselves when mental illness strikes.